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  • Accountable Allyship
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    • Glossary
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  • Social Justice
    • Human Rights
    • Sexual Assault Awareness
  • Connect
  • Impact Crewneck

Education and Awareness - What is Consent?

I know the last few weeks we have seen and heard so much about sexual assault in the news. I know we want to be done with it. But the best thing we can do for ourselves and each other is to be informed. If you have children or teach children, please talk to them about consent. Resources at bottom of post.

I want to be clear: sexual assault is not anecdotal - it’s epidemic. It happens every single day and we are in desperate need of awareness and education around this fact to be able to achieve a culture shift.

  • Every 98 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted

  • Every 8 minutes, that victim is a child

  • Meanwhile, only 6 out of every 1,000 perpetrators will end up in prison

  • 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused before they turn 18 years old

  • 1 in 3 women experience some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetime

  • 1 in 5 women are raped, and 1 in 71 men are raped

  • 8 out of 10 victims knew their rapist

  • 91% of victims of rape and sexual assault are female and 9% are male

  • Rape is the most under-reported crime; 63% of sexual assaults are not reported to police

  • The prevalence of false reporting is low — between 2% and 10%

The above statistics and figures are based on studies you can review here and here.

How to talk to kids about consent here.

Helpful 3 minute consent video here.

How this teacher is handling consent in her classroom found here.

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Wednesday 10.10.18
Posted by Emily Fascilla
 

Invisible Shackles

When I was 12 years old I wanted to be white

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Monday 04.30.18
Posted by Emily Fascilla
Comments: 2
 

Navigating Polarization: My Hopes for a New Year

I was in a state of shock, I was grieving. And now that I know better, I will do better. 

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Monday 01.08.18
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Feminism As A Trans Man

This isn’t an autobiography or the story of my hardships in a predominantly cis-minded world but rather an introduction to give you some insight on my position as a queer individual living in this world.

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Monday 01.01.18
Posted by Emily Fascilla
Comments: 3
 

Creating Unshakable Confidence

Gandhi said, “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” I agree – but I also make the argument that this is the recipe to confidence too.

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Thursday 09.28.17
Posted by Emily Fascilla
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The Haitian Secret

In my first (but certainly not my last) visit to Haiti - I learned their biggest secret. My anticipated experience of Haitian culture was flipped on its head. This is what I walked away with:

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Friday 09.01.17
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Practicing Your Passion

About 6 years ago when I was 19 a good friend of mine, Matthew Wordell, stopped me on the sidewalk and asked, “What is your passion?” I blurted out the only answer that came to mind, “People.” 

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Monday 06.26.17
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3 Simple Self-Care Practices

We are all constantly juggling multiple roles and this reality has the ability to exhaust and deplete us if we neglect ourselves.

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Tuesday 06.20.17
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The Importance of Knowing Yourself

A strong sense of self makes you impervious to negative opinions and fearless in your endeavors. Knowing who you are erases the fear of failure. 

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Sunday 06.18.17
Posted by Emily Fascilla
 

Social Media and Self-Care: Creating Healthy Boundaries

Oftentimes social media is beneficial, something that connects, informs, and helps us. However social media also has the tendency to lend itself to...

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Saturday 06.17.17
Posted by Emily Fascilla
 

You Are Who You Surround Yourself With

“You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.” – Jim Rohn

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Saturday 06.17.17
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How to Erase a Past You Don't Love

“Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego..."

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Saturday 06.17.17
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Forward Movement

“I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.”

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Friday 06.16.17
Posted by Emily Fascilla
 

The Ultimate Privilege

What I plea of those who come to this site is that you visit to find healing and solace. I hope it becomes a place you come to recharge, and then go out into the world and fight the good fight. 

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Thursday 06.01.17
Posted by Emily Fascilla
 

To Know Someone’s Story is to Love Them

I heard this phrase echoed throughout our home in my childhood.

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Saturday 04.08.17
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How to Respond When a Friend Confides

Part of creating a more compassionate society as a whole is in how we respond to sexual assault survivors.

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Saturday 04.01.17
Posted by Emily Fascilla
 

Cardinal Rules of Skincare

Best tips for flawless skin start here.

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Sunday 01.01.17
Posted by Emily Fascilla
 

30 Is Not The New 20

"So claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do. You're deciding your life right now."

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Saturday 12.31.16
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